Most "POWERFUL" maid I ever had!

I have this maid since 15 April, but after 3 weeks, I have the intention to return her to the agent. Now passed 1 month, my intention is clear. She has to go!

I never had a maid as irresponsible, lazy and "stupid" as her. Usually I will not use this word but here i really cant stand her. For the past week that i was sick, I dont wish to speak with her. Just not to let her make me more ill.

She is one who do not want to remember dates, day & time. On the first day, A schedule was given to her, as she need to pick & fetch my children at different time on different days. What time to do what chore. However, she choose her time to pick my kids ( or rather she dont see time to go fetching them).

On the fourth Sunday, she came to ask me, "mdm, today Sunday, i mop the floor?" On the fifth week, she dint even bother to wash our clothes (ie to put into the washing machines) and she din even bother to ask me if these full load of clothes need to be washed. I do it myself. My mum asked her a few days later, why she din wash the clothes or asked? Her reply :" I MUST ASK?"

Even housekeeping was also a mess. She cant put back things at their original position after cleaning. Making bed was bad. Happy, she stack 2 pillows together, not happy, the pillow is still at their original position after she make the bed, could be the pillow standing on the wall, or pillow at the bed end. Terrible!

She gave me an impression that she is one that will steal food! And i told mum abt it, finally one day my mum found that she indeed steal food! Well, it is not that she is not given food. Whenever, we din cook, she will always have a pack of food tabao from food store however, we realised that she always never finish her food and throw away. How can she finish a pack of food, say 3 dishes & rice within 5 mins! And why she want to steal food!

Once, my mum gave her those tibits from my daughter's school, as there are friends' BD and give goodies bags contain sweets and tibits to all the friends, because I dont really like my children having unhealthy stuff, we gave it to the maid else we will gave to other people. Who knows she finished the whole pack within an hour! OMG!. My mum asked her why she finished everything within such a short period, later u fall sick how? She said, NEVERMIND! HEY! What do u mean by NEVERMIND! I m responsible for u illness! SUCH a PAIN!

I m 2 today here!

Today I m 2 years old here!. It has been 2 years since I started my blogging, and I enjoyed it thought has been blogging much lesser. Thanks to the invention of blogging, facebooking, we can be connected to people all over the world without having to spend much!

Yeah!

The Loyal Wife

The Loyal Wife

There was a man who had worked all of his life,
had saved all of his money, and was a real miser
when it came to his money.

Just before he died, he said to his wife, 'When I
die, I want you to take all my money and put it
in the casket with me. I want to take my money
to the after-life with me.'

And so he got his wife to promise him with all of
her heart that when he died, she would put all of
the money in the casket with him.
Well, he died .. . .

He was stretched out in the casket, his wife was
sitting there in black, and her friend was sitting
next to her. When they finished the ceremony,
just before the undertakers got ready to close
the casket, the wife said, 'Wait, just a minute!'

She had a box with her, she came over with the
box and put it in the casket.

Then the undertakers locked the casket down,
and they rolled it away.

Her friend said, 'I know you weren't fool enough
to put all that money in there in the casket with
your husband.'

The loyal wife replied 'Listen, I can't go back on
my word. I promised him that I was going to put
that money in that casket with him.'

'You mean to tell me you put that money in the
casket with him !!! ?'

'I sure did' said the wife. 'I got it all together, put
it into my account and wrote him a cheque.
If he can cash it, he can spend it.'

Moral of the story:

*Women are cleverer than Men* ................

Tears In Heaven

Tears In Heaven by Eric Clapton and Will Jennings

Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong
And carry on,'Cause I know
I don't belong
Here in heaven.
Would you hold my hand
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you help me stand
If I saw you in heaven?
I'll find my way
Through night and day,
'Cause I know I just can't stay
Here in heaven.
Time can bring you down,
Time can bend your knees.
Time can break your heart,
Have you begging please,
begging please.
Beyond the door,
There's peace I'm sure,
And I know there'll be no more
Tears in heaven.
Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong
And carry on,
'Cause I know I don't belong
Here in heaven.

I m finally down!

After so many days, weeks & months of worrying, fear, sadness, I m finally beaten! Down with sore throat infection, headache and fever of course! But seriously i dont like to visit the doctor during these critical period, cos i need to take temp, wear mask before i can enter the clinic. And the doc see me in another room, not his usual consultation room....sigh....hazi....i dont have H1N1. Ok,ok,ok, must understand doctors and their staff fear also, though now is yellow colour.

YOU WIN!

Mother's Day

Roses, carnation, fan, cards.
This carnation and the vase bought by my eldest! with her own saving...hahaha.

this roses, from the youngest, but daddy pay for it lah....hahaha and the cards and a drawing. The fan is from no 2. I think she bought it from her school...hahaha why fan? because mummy bought quite a no of such fan from Daiso....but they damaged some of them ....hahaha how thoughtful.

Least I still have 3 beautiful and lovely daughters.

How is this year!?

Now is already May coming to Mid-year, but things have not been smooth. In fact was like storm. Fast and scary! Too many unhappiness, too cruel, too sad, too disappointed. I think u name it, i got it all this year. Hazi.... Sometimes, i really dont how long I can hold on to it? Actually i have no intention to write this today, but i m just too emotion.

However, i will not write the most cruel things, because it is too sad and personal. But this is supposed to be my diary. If i were to write it out here, I think many people will be worrying and upset. Let just me be one instead. Until a time (i hope it will not happen) when i cannot control anymore, i think everyone will know.

From office to home. Almost everything is not smooth. Upset over my performance bonus, the grade that was given, upset my big boss is leaving, upset the new boss is terrible. upset my old maid couldnt come back, upset the new maid is not up to standard, upset the children couldnt understand why..., very disappointed with... lost my confident in.....I have become very Paranoid....may be soon depression will come after me also....

May be i m just destined to face all the obstacles myself all the times, since young.

May be the god think i m just too strong-willed.

May be i m just foolish!

Dont ask me, but my health is fine so far.

seriously, i m really very tired, drained, exhausted after all these whole series of events!

tears dropping.......