The FDW is here finally!

I still picked up FDW who is not well last thursday evening. She is better now. She got gastric problem from previous employment which last abt 2.5 months. So far so good. Let us just pray for the best of it. Wouldnt dare to think too far too much since nothing have come out of it so far for me. Lets work hard for it.

Should be going back to work tomorrow afternoon. Unless something else surfaced.

Again.

Last evening agent called me that i may want to consider selecting again since she may need to do scan for her non-stop mens which she do not have the money to do now. And dont know if the medicine will help. Ask me to interview another one today noon. But older with higher salary.

Of course i want to consider and interview another one. What if i still insist to employ her and she fainted at home when no one is at home, or she collapsed while sending my girl to school?

Really do not understand why thing keep happening, one after another.

We will see later if the 38 years old is alright.

Haiz

Fortunate & unfortunate

Fortunate, my application for the FWD is approved and can pick her up today but last min agent called to inform me she is not well, will need to bring her to doc to ensure that she is fine before handing over to me. Still fortunate I believed. As it is approved and before picking her up.

Unfortunate, early morning kena bombed. Shall not say who, but really make my day dark & black! Until now today the person still the same, for so so so many years. It is really my unfortunate that i have tolerate and tolerate. Well, I cannot dont tolerate. May be One day I will just leave here & let go off every thing. No need to find me, perhape, that will make a happier me.

I believe this one day will come! Just dont ask why I leave.

Not Again!

Just received call from agent. The maid i selected got medical conditions. Need to re select. OMG! I am near breakdown!

Tell me when this going to end?
When such life going to end?

How wish i can turn back the clock to 20 years!

Whatever i do is not appreciated & seen!
Whatever i din do or haven do is seen, remembered and asked!

So what am i supposed to do?

Seems like i don have any fortunate and happy things to share on my blog since last year! I m so sick & tired! If only i can be irresponsible. Let go everything and go! YES EVERYTHING!

may be the eye lasik and chemical peel i did last year was something I m glad to share.

else really nothing pleasant at all.

Bad time spent @ samsung service centre

This time bring in my jet to repair. Simply cant start up even i have changed the battery. Will never buy any more samsung phone. Wait 1 hr + for 7 q no to be my turn. Just because of an old lady asking how to use her omina 2 phone! OMG! too tired to say....

Maid again

Yesterday agent called me to inform me that the maid i selected failed her medical check-up, she has got active hep. Not too sure is A or B, just unfit to work.

So sad. I need to reselect. Today, i selected 1 with a few heads. But was told by the agent she looking for expat family and ask for every sunday off....

Wow, even maids are hard to choose and find....finally found one, hope everything goes well...haizzz

Wish me good luck!

Maldives

Recently my colleague and a supervior went to Maldives, they went separately but on the same week. Saw the pictures taken by my colleague, so beautiful and romantic. I shall include this trip in my wish list....hahaha so nice!

Recap - Life Handbook 2010

i posted this last year, I wanna recap. I really like this.


LIFE HANDBOOK 2009- shld be 2010

Health:
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time for prayer.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2008 (2009).
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:
11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Society:
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
Life:
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Last but not the least:
40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about.

iS 1 yEaR aLrEaDy.

How times flies! Is 1 year already. Last year at the same time so many things happened. Too many. But thing do repeat itself this year, I fall sick on the same day. Today I run toilet 4 times since 5am with terrible pain, cold sweat. Don like this feeling. The same day, memories will just flow back, until a time i don recall, i will stop posting.

This 1 yEaR is really long long long one. Maid gone home, not happy with gradings, sent back maid, maid run away, other ppl back stabbed us, fall off with "m" and the most hateful thing ever happened.

Until now the run away maid hasn't closed. I think she is still with her embassy. She work for me less than 2 months but run away 5 months, and run away from agency also. Terrible. Last month wanting to employ a Filipino maid aged 50 recommended by a friend. However, after i have sign all the documents, her current employer decided not to let her go and did not inform me until I called the agent 2 weeks later. Wasted mine 2 weeks waiting for her. else my new maid shld be here already, haiz.... let hope everything goes well for this one.

what a challenging year I have ~ 2009.